Sex

Gender ... intercourse ... characteristics ... homo ... hetero ... kinky ... wierd

We all have our favourite idea, and favourite manner of sex. Yes, i know you do. Your parents do too ... *shudder* and theirs ... *ugh* and that gorgeous blond secretary down the hall *grin*.

It's been with us from the start, and is as natural as eating or breathing. But sex is more than either of those. While breathing we don't even think about, and food is a multi trillion dollar industry, offering anything your mind can conceive of, sex is don't. Don't talk about it, don't share your preferences, don't tell me what you did last night, ESPECIALLY not who with!

Why this absolute block on anything sexual? At the office, you can go any any website you want to, from gaming to cars to food to really wierd ways to spend your spare time, but do not go to a porn site ... they'll fire you for that.

And what's with this porn thing? It's like showing a room full of hungry people a movie about some lucky folks digging into the biggest fullest buffet ever.

Everybody wants it, everybody does it, everyone thinks of it (every couple of seconds apparently), yet no-one talks about it, and more often than not is NEVER open about it. Sounds like a recipe for disaster to me. Prostitution is the oldest profession, makes me think of some poor caveman being given the run around by some tarted up cavegirl, confused because well ... i need it, and you're making me run around collecting fucking SHELLS? But it's illegal. Not to mention dirty, BECAUSE it's illegal. Legalize it, bring it into the open. Yes you'll create otyher problems, but turniong your eyes away won't change it, or help in any way.

The you get the whole kinky trip. It's gone now, but once upon a time there was a website called furniture.com. Really ... you have no idea. I got a pretty good imagination ... but FOR FLYING FUCK SAKES?!?!?! Yeah. And you know about those outfits for fancy dress parties and mascots at sporting events, some people get turned on by that ... great big teddy bear, literally.

Not to judge, if they are getting their rocks off good for them!!

But apart form trying to get my blog noticed *wink* it is something that should be more open, should be more discussed, and should certainly be better approached, because at the moment it's not working. Rape is so common some people don't see it as a problem, but as a way of life. I got no issue wwith the govt cutting off some rapists dick, isn't democracy about the best for the most?

We need to control it, but to do that, we need to understand it. Read up, the Kama Sutra is still very relevant, try stuff (with a WILLING partner please) and don't be afraid to go that little bit further in your desire to understand your own body's pleasures.

Sexual fustration is a killer ... go on ... shag someone today!!!