I had another really good conversation with him the other day. This little gem came out.
"Daddy, i get teased at school because i'm clever, and because i'm white."
His response went something along the lines of: "Mr Einstein is clever, and i want to be clever like him." Also included in his comments to me was the fact that he was going to honours evening, they weren't.
Well, the whole conversation is one of those terribly kafka-esque scenarios, where the reality is so badly contorted, that even Alice would throw her hands up and say bugger that for a lark, or something similar.
Teased, clever, white. The 3 main points in that, and unfortunately, teasing is never a once off event, it's usually ongoing, insistant, and as my son has pointed out before, it comes looking for you. Teased for being clever, well thankfully he sees the irony in that. Nothing that he could ever say would do justice to the absurdity of stupid people, being stupid people, and being loud about being stupid, to boot.
Of course, being teased for being white, well he must be lying. That never happens in this quasi-communist-fascist-dictatorship-rainbow nation of ours? *chuckle* I think the stupid rule applies here too.
I'm glad to say he had a huge grin on his face as he told me this. He knows it's not right, but he also knows it's irrelevant. He has his friends, and all he needs, and he knows it. I think the word *progress* can be whispered softly.
Ah to be 10 again. The only difference i can tell between my youth and his is the ability to ride a bicycle all over the neighbourhood. Oh, and he has a computer. Fair trade? I don't think so, but such is life.
Anyhow, just for my budding scientist: *ugh* our internet is not happy, hence neither am i. *insert einstein tongue picture here*
peace
Tuesday, 24 November 2009
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When are you ever happy?
http://msnbcmedia3.msn.com/j/msnbc/Components/Photos/z_Projects_in_progress/050418_Einstein/050405_einstein_tongue.widec.jpg
As to your son... He gets it :-)
Not only a sign of intellegince (excuse my spelling, stupid people can't spell:-P) but maturity too. NICE!
Lol, usally sex, drugs, or loud music are involved :p
yup that pic. i have several copies, just can't upload them. This is already the third time i'm trying to comment :(
peace and love!
3rd time lucky...
*sticks own tounge out trying to look supper Einsteiny. I even messed my hair up for that*
We're moving from iBurst in the next few days beacuse of years of bad service, which has escalated recently into unbelievably shit service.
I'm probably going to sign up with Screamer.
But yes, problems with the net from home on this side, too.
Love,
Terri in Joburg
If only he got teased for being male as well, he would've scored the South African trifecta.
The way I see it, the world we grew up in has been trying to move appreciation away from everything that really has value to things that have not. We protect and celebrate the weakest properties of ourselves because we're told that everything is a special little snowflake from god, and everything that carries an innate strength gets trampled on because it is feared.
Well survival of the fittest is making a comeback in a big way, and no one will be spared. Not from nature and certainly not from the rage that they've cultivated.
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